I can already tell that this post is going to be a long one, so sit back and relax. Maybe with a cup of coffee to ease you through it, I don’t know.
So it’s been a few weeks since my last post and a lot has happened. I’ll sum it up as simply as I can but I’m writing this post in a rush and then I’m posting it so I’m sorry if it’s so jumbled. I just need this out there.
So, exams. Instead of revising like I should have done I took to the bottle in an attempt to block out the reality of my situation. At first I was so scared of failing I buried my head in the sand. I became scarily good at hiding my drink. I could have a chat with my parents in the kitchen swigging vodka pretending it was water. I was going clubbing most evenings even though I shouldn’t have been, not on my medication, sometimes every Thursday, Friday and Saturday. And I’m talking heavy drinking. Which in turn made me feel very ill. It became a vicious cycle.
I became an expert liar. I pretended I was on top of things. But I came clean to my parents that I had messed up because I soon realized that I needed help. My savings had been blown on alcohol and I was skint. Luckily, my parents have bailed me out.
I know I’ve messed up and I’m not proud of it. When I came home, I wanted everything to be different. It wasn’t that I didn’t appreciate extra time. That was a blessing and I know other students would have killed for that. Just thinking that makes me feel worse. But I shrugged it off, put revision to the back of my mind, because every time I attempted to sit down with my work I shut down. It’s like my brain wouldn’t work.
I’m still taking Citalopram. I’ve been taking the tablets for about four months now. They’ve made me neutral. It’s like I can’t really feel mega happy or mega sad. But they drain me. I’m constantly tired, so I’ve been advised to switch my medication now. I know I should have gone back to my GP but a part of me didn’t want to admit that I needed to try another treatment. Having chronic fatigue sucks and I know I could have prevented it sooner by fessing up. I’ve been so tired even by doing the most simple of things. And I’m tired of that.
I’ve felt fine. But additionally that’s been my downfall and I should have sought help sooner. I felt so fine that I didn’t feel anxious about my exams at all. I went to Thorpe Park (this is relevant I promise). Normally, I’m scared of rides but I didn’t feel anxious at all. So I made sure I went on every single damn one just to feel something. And it kind of worked, the adrenaline was a momentary boost. I enjoyed being able to feel anything other than fine.
Eventually, I did revise. After a long chat with my parents, I realized that okay, I had left it late. But it wasn’t too late and any revision would be better than none. I have such supportive friends and family. My parents are aware that I’ve been relying on drink again. They’ve helped me financially and I’m so thankful for that because now my exams are over I can concentrate again on working to raise money.
Additionally, I’ve stayed away from alcohol bar the odd drink. I don’t trust myself right now and to be honest I don’t really want to hit the town hard. I want to fix this mess before I go down a dangerous path. I don’t want to hurt anybody. Or myself.
Going back to University reminded me of what I’ve worked hard for. I love University. I want to graduate alongside my friends next year. I don’t want to ruin this opportunity for myself.
So yeah, to conclude it’s been a rough few weeks. My exams did go well, I think. But only time will tell and results day is just around the corner. I’m putting myself first now for my sake and for those that care about me. It’s time to sort myself out now. Properly, once and for all.
Love, Medikitty